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<H1 align="center">Healing Ourselves</H1>

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<P><B>Healing Ourselves</B><BR>

<A HREF="l1-0.html">Lesson 1</A> Connecting with our Inner Healer<BR>
Chapter 1: Creating a Healing Space</P>
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<P>This first unit looks at how we can re-organize our lives to create the time and space to do this process.<BR> 
This exercise is designed to help you assess what activities in your 
life contribute to your life path and higher good and which you are 
doing out of a sense of obligation and feelings of no choice. 
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<H3>Creating a Healing Time and Space</H3>
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Think of the activities that fill up your day and the commitments that 
you have at the moment in the following areas: </P>
	
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<LI>work
<LI>things you do for your family members,partner , children, parents
<LI>Commitments to friends and aquaintances 
<LI>study courses 
<LI>commitments to organisations e.g. church, clubs                                   
<LI>time spent in recreational activities, hobbies, sport, watching TV, 
<LI>time spent on the phone 
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<P>List below up to six areas that claim most of your time.                                 
and the estimate on how much time you spend doing them each week</P>

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	After writing down the six areas that claim most of your time 
close your eyes and focusing on each in turn intuitively sense how 
you feel in your body  about it. Assign a number to it between 1 - 5 
based on the scale below :
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<LI>Really dislike doing it and wish you did not have to do it.
<LI>Creates feelings of stress when you do it.
<LI>Feel neutral towards this activity. Can do it without stress.
<LI>Like doing this.
<LI>Enjoy doing this the most.
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When you have done this look at those activities that scored 2 or 
below and think if there is any way that you could reduce your  time 
and commitment in these areas. Ask yourself what action would you 
could take to achieve this. Could you :
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<LI> Tell the people concerned that you do not have the time to 
continue doing this 
<LI>tell them that you need help from them in order to 
continue doing it 
<LI> reorganise your time so that you spend less time doing it 
<LI> do it at a different time so that it is less time-comsuming and it fits in 
better with your other commitments. </P>
 

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List below the activities that scored two or less, then beside 
them note how you could reduce the time you have to spend doing 
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	Print out a feww copies of this webpage and use them to do this exercise for 15 - 20 minutes  
once a week for a few weeks and continue doing this
until you have made sufficient changes to give yourself the time 
to connect with your Inner Healer.   Each time you do it compare the  
answers with the previous sheet noting what you have been able to 
change and what is still a stress. 
	
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